Family Violence Prevention

Family Violence Prevention

Provides quality specialized services and resources that promote family strengths, stability and enhance the safety of victims of domestic violence, family violence or dating violence and their dependents.

How to Apply

Contact Children and Family Services

Additional Information

Provides quality specialized services and resources that promote family strengths, stability and enhance the safety of victims of domestic violence, family violence or dating violence and their dependents. Family Violence advocates will provide advocacy services, awareness activities, outreach and prevention activities throughout the Choctaw Nation service area to work towards preventing violence, reducing the cycle of violence and beginning the healing process for the survivors of family violence, domestic violence or dating violence.

Services are available regardless of race, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity (or expression), religion, national origin, age, disability, as well to others from diverse backgrounds.

Frequently Asked Questions

According to the November 2000 Department of Justice report, Full Report of the Prevalence, Incidence, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence Against Women: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey, 22% of surveyed women reported they were physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, boyfriend or girlfriend, or date in their lifetime. Approximately 1.3 million women and 835,000 men are physically assaulted by an intimate partner annually in the United States.

There are many myths regarding the causes and consequences of domestic violence. For more information, please see the Kentucky Domestic Violence Association’s Myths of Domestic Violence and the Office of the Clark County (Indiana) Prosecuting Attorney’s Myths and Facts about Domestic Violence.

Evidence-based studies of rural women who have experienced domestic violence are scarce. As the national surveys illustrate, domestic violence is a critical issue in the United States. These surveys, however, typically do not entirely capture the total number of violent incidences, which can include hidden types of abuse such as psychological and financial abuse. Intimate partner violence is often under-reported, particularly in rural areas where there is less privacy for domestic violence survivors. In fact, the challenges and occurrences experienced by survivors of domestic violence are likely made worse by residence in a rural community.

Children exposed to violence in the home may experience a variety of negative consequences such as anxiety, sleep disturbances, withdrawal, and rebelliousness. Without treatment, these children are at greater risk for substance abuse, depression, and difficulty in their own relationships.

Rural relationships tend to be closely knit. Relationships or familiarity with health care providers and/or law enforcement officials may affect victims’ willingness to discuss abuse or violence. Similarly, relationships with an abuser may limit the extent to which an abuse or violence claim is investigated. The culture of some rural communities can make it more difficult for women to seek help. Communities where men and women tend to stay in traditional roles, where people avoid asking for help, and where there is less awareness of domestic violence and its impact on victims and children are communities where it is harder for domestic violence victims to seek out the resources they need.

Rural domestic violence victims are in more isolated locations and may have difficulty accessing health care and other services due to lack of transportation or poor weather and road conditions. Emergency response time is often slower in rural areas. In addition, some rural homes do not have telephone service to request emergency assistance.

In most rural communities, offender treatment options are limited. To find out about treatment options available in your area, please contact your local domestic violence agency.

Rural poverty is a particular concern regarding domestic violence. Studies have shown that poverty and domestic violence are related. Poverty greatly contributes to family and relationship stress and limits victims’ ability to leave abusive partners or family members. Non-metropolitan poverty rates are higher than those in metropolitan regions for many demographic groups, particularly minorities in the South. Rural family violence survivors who live in poverty and lack transportation may be unable to travel to family members’ or friends’ homes for shelter.

Many weapons, especially firearms, are more readily available in rural households. Increased availability of these weapons increases the risk and deadliness of domestic attacks upon rural women.

A shortage of health care providers is a constant challenge for rural Americans, particularly when addressing survivors of domestic violence who may need physical or mental health treatment to recover from the effects of abuse. Rural residents are more likely to be under-insured. Lack of insurance limits victims’ abilities to seek either primary or mental health care for injuries, depression, or anxiety.

Rural health care providers may lack training to screen for domestic violence. The Family Violence Prevention Fund has a video, Screen to End Abuse, providing examples of domestic violence screening in a primary care setting.

Domestic violence survivors may be in need of legal assistance for protection orders, divorces, child custody proceedings and other legal matters that are a consequence of abuse or violence. In rural areas, it can be more difficult to find an affordable lawyer or legal aid. Law enforcement and the courts in rural communities may be less familiar with issues of domestic violence and appropriate responses.

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